Geographic dispersion, busy schedules, judgmental attitudes, gossip, and hurt feelings were identified as factors that seriously impact communication.
There was considerable mention of the older generations being intrusive into the lives of the younger generations. Gender differences, differing values between couples, different personality types and styles among siblings, and role expectations of parents were also cited as communication challenges. The impact of loss and the grieving that follows was also raised as a barrier to communication.
When asked how family history impacts communication, participants noted that past disagreements limit conversation because prior experiences were so exhausting no one wants to go there again. Historic episodes lead to typecasting. Sometimes the youngest member of the family never feels respected despite having grown and developed in many ways. But, because of family history, the family fails to recognize the growth and change.
Several participants discussed the impact of family secrets on communication. Sexuality, blended families, mourning losses, addiction, and mental illness all surfaced as topics the older generations often don’t discuss and the younger generations wish to talk about.
Because traditionalists and boomers did not grow up with internet-based technologies, they, in many situations, struggle to keep up with the constant changes. AI is playing a pivotal role in bridging communication gaps across generations. By analyzing each age group’s distinct communication patterns and preferences, AI can customize messages and adjust communication styles to better resonate with everyone involved. This personalized approach helps enhance understanding and mitigate potential conflicts arising from generational differences.
For example, AI-powered language models can simplify complex financial concepts for younger audiences or clarify emerging technological ideas for older generations. Additionally, AI can assess communications’ sentiment and emotional tone, identifying potential misunderstandings or conflicts before they escalate.
Most of the participants who discussed cross-generational communication focused on transparency regarding family wealth. Understanding the topic is complicated by many factors. Historically, privacy around money/wealth has been core to the values of the senior generations. For them, discussing money, incomes, or inheritance was not promoted by society or acceptable. Another factor is the controlling matriarch or patriarch who was raised on these values and finds it difficult to adapt to a changing culture.